About Us
Welcome, and let me introduce myself:
my name is Natalie Eggenberger and I am the person behind the business
called HorseConnection.
My background is in psychotherapy, 17 years of
therapeutic bodywork and a life and heart full of horses.
I always loved riding bareback and in fact as
a kid I did not have a saddle for ‘Marina’ a rescued grey
Welsh Pony mare for several years.
We did everything from flatwork to flat out gallops and jumping straw
bales falling off occasionally but always with an angel on my shoulder.
Later I learnt that the human body can actually break and became more
occupied with not letting that happen, stirrups where a worthwhile discovery.
I rode in English saddles till I was 30 and than
spent years in stocksaddles, followed by getting more into dressage
as I had the right horse for it. I tried and owned several dressage
saddles but they proved to be unsafe on the trail with my green and
spirited horses. What I liked about them was that I was sitting a lot
straighter than in the stock saddles which threw me of balance with
the forward stirrup placement most of them have. I found it almost impossible
to engage my horses hindquarters in stock saddles and have not used
them on my animals for the last 5 years.
My mother gave me a nicely made bareback pad
as a present many years ago and I loved it and still use it once in
a while. At the time I was giving sessions in what I called ‘being
with horses’ and often used the bareback pad and a vaulting girth
in my lessons. Besides connecting person and horse on a soul level,
this work was an assertiveness training for some and trauma healing
and overcoming dissociation for other clients. Pilates principles, breath
and body awareness on the horse and basic riding technique are additional
aspects of this work. I am looking at expanding this and to teach this
work to interested horse people with a background in therapy.
I always continued riding bareback, sometimes
hacking out just in a bridle or halter. In 2002’ I fell off a
couple of times and lost a good deal of confidence. I stopped riding
out without saddle altogether, really missing ‘truly feeling the
horse under me’ but being too worried about big shies without
stirrups. After every fall I have had, I have to ride the horse without
a saddle the next time to re-establish my trust again, is there anybody
else out there who does this?
Last year my husband decided to buy me another
horse to make me happy. I found a 6-year-old gelding, interesting boy,
a Peruvian Paso horse; you know the horses with the funny gait. Well
‘Paco’ has changed my life! I
will be eternally grateful to him for bringing new people, new learning
and a new career into my life. Right from the start he told me in several
ways that his back was hurting during the rides and I tried many, many
saddles on him. Paco was badly broken in and could really shy and I
have come off him bareback on the paddock. He is as round as they come,
a little ’down hill build’ and with no withers worth mentioning.
All saddles rolled, slipped and injured him. I desperately needed ‘something’
that would not hurt him and give me security on his back. I had considered
and researched treeless saddles for a number of years and finally, on
a brave day, ordered my Barefoot Cheyenne from Germany.
To me this saddle is a dream come true: I feel
my horse like riding bareback and I have fenders, pommel and cantle
for security, the best of both worlds finally. The saddle also puts
the rider in a very upright position and has the stirrup attachments
further back than most saddles, perfect to apply seat aids. Meanwhile
my horses are happy, relaxed and willing and most problem behaviour
stopped when the pain stopped: pigrooting, leaning on the bit, stumbling,
constant shying and bolting – wrong saddle fit must be very painful
indeed and I only weigh 50kg and have a balanced seat, imagine a heavy
novice rider in a heavy ill fitting saddle …yes, the poor horse!
My Andalusian Sadhu (not a purebred, has some
Arab in him) strides out very powerfully with the ‘Cheyenne’
and I love riding him in this saddle, he is such a lovely mover. He
is a high withered horse and his movement becomes more elevated and
forward, he is also more surefooted and easier to control, stays very
soft and alert, what more could I wish for. I can also feel how his
back comes up under me when he collects which I could never truly feel
in other saddles.
Paco is a different horse with the Cheyenne on his back and the saddle
does not slip which was my big concern because he is so round. He still
shies occasionally on a windy day and I am like glued to the saddle,
feeling very secure. Paco’s trust in me improved dramatically
and he is so much happier, the grumpy ‘small eyed look’
is completely gone.
Both horses seem to read my mind in the arena and my aids are getting
very subtle thanks to the close contact and - no pain is distracting
them from lending me their full attention. On the trail we go out treeless,
bitless and shoeless, the natural way.
I was so enthused with the new riding experience
that I decided to bring these saddles to Australia for all of you people
dreaming of a safe, comfortable and truly horse friendly saddle that
does not cost the earth.
Sabine Ullmann the founder, designer and owner
of Barefoot saddles gave me the exclusive rights to sell her products
in Australia and New Zealand.
So here they are, on your doorstep.
So far I have seen only positive responses from horses and riders with
the Barefoot treeless saddles. I also had the opportunity to try several
other treeless saddle models and simply like the Barefoot best, they
provide excellent value for money, give the closest contact, look great
and give superior security in hairy situations.
Being a therapist by trade I had always suspected
that a lot of behaviour and training problems relate to pain and the
Barefoot saddles make this very obvious.
What many of us do at times to our beloved horses in well meaning ignorance
is downright frightening, I mean from the Novice to the Grand Prix level
riders with only very few exceptions. I am committed to keep on learning
all the time.
If we really explore situations when we judge
our horse as: ‘having attitude’, ‘challenging my dominance’,
‘dirty’, ‘naughty’, ‘mean’…
we usually find we either have a communication problem, meaning I (as
the intelligent human being I am) have to communicate more clearly in
a way the horse can understand - or my horse is trying to tell me that
it is in pain.
Occasionally especially with young horses we run into real dominance
issues but they can be dealt with, without ever touching, let alone
hurting the horse.
If somebody calls himself a horse trainer and uses force and inflicts
pain, or the horse does not improve, please dare to question that trainer
and maybe even yourself: Do you want to be feared or respected by your
horse? Do you want a motivated or a resigned horse? Can you learn when
you are scared? Can you concentrate well, when you are in pain? Do you
get grumpy when you are in pain?
How many different places in your body can you concentrate on simultaneously?
Not many? So how come we expect this of our horse applying several (sometimes
even conflicting) aids at the same time? Are you absolutely sure your
horse is not responding to pain when it misbehaves? How can you be so
sure? Take a second and find your own answers, please.
My Paco needed additional rehabilitation for
his back from years of badly fitting saddles and I want to stress this
point here. If your horse is really sore through the back and shoulders,
you probably need a chiropractor, equine massage or Bowen therapist
and exercise rehabilitation in addition to the right saddle. For the
exercise rehabilitation you might even need to take more lessons with
a good instructor to learn how to build a ‘top line’ in
your horse from the ground and in the saddle.
Sorry but the deeper you investigate the more complex things get.
With the right saddle I could start retraining
my Paso: Paco has transformed into a most wonderful and willing riding
horse and I want to mention my friend and mentor Yvonne Lehey here.
Yvonne has taught me in a loving and professional manner for 10 exciting
days this year and has much improved my effectiveness and confidence
as a horse trainer and rider. Yvonne bases her way with horses on more
than 25 years of active involvement in the fine art of natural horsemanship.
Yvonne currently works with a unique blend of the Andrew McLean’s
method, Clicker training and TTEAM - and she knows how to teach it too.
Thank you Yvonne.
I also want to thank all the horses past and
present for all the tremendous pleasure and depth they have added to
my life, who kept me connected to God, to my wildness, courage, surrender
and my spirit.
I am also grateful to and highly influenced by: Klaus Ferdinand Hempfling
the ultimate horse whisperer, Pat Parelli who reminds me to keep it
fun, John Chatterton who gave me the first real insights into horse
training, Linda Tellington Jones who is simply an inspiration, Sally
Swift who added meditation to my riding, Susanne Schwaiger and Marianne
Gaeng who encouraged me to marry horses and psychotherapy, Tom Roberts
and Andrew McLean who show me so clearly how horses learn and how to
be an effective trainer –and to all my riding instructors and
horsey girlfriends over the years who put up with me and my opinionated
way’s.
Last not least I want to thank my husband for his Love and generosity
and my two grandmothers and parents who supported my passion for horses
since I was a toddler.
I strongly support all equine rescue organizations
and promote only violence free training and handling of horses and humane
or therapeutic horse equipment. Currently I have 2 rescue horses in
my care.
Thank you for your time and interest and please
feel free to ask me lots of questions. I love people almost as much
as horses and actually enjoy being of assistance. I aim to keep HorseConnection
a personal little business and I am open for your feedback and ideas.
Keep on riding, it is good for the soul.